Wow only four months!  I feel like they have been mine forever.  I think James feels that way too.  It is a tenious attachment he has - it will need to grow with time - but he is very definately attaching well.  He is getting better and better at communicating too.  Charles is slowly getting more sure of his place in our family.  He actually will give you a hug and kiss without TOO much coaxing now!   His communication is just amazing to me - although other people will ask my how in the world I understand him.  He gets his points across with a mixture of sign language and Ukraine and English.  He has not had a "meltdown" as we call it - in a month or so. 

It has been four months of doctors visits, home school, introductions to family and other things.  We have been very very busy - but blessed.  They boys are doing very well and so are our three other children.